Here are some answers to questions you might have. But please do reach out if we’ve missed anything.

What should I wear?

Dress for dancing and make sure you’re comfortable. Please make no attempt to try and upstage the bride, the groom or either of their mothers.

Can I bring my kids?

When sending out our save-the-dates, we wrote out the names of the children who are invited. This is to manage numbers as best we can. Sadly, if we didn’t write your child’s name we can’t accommodate them. It’s not because we don’t like them enough. But maybe they just haven’t made enough effort with us. Let’s discuss on the day.

Who else can I bring?

Hopefully we’ve made all +1s and partner invites clear through invitations and save-the-dates. If you’re unsure then please ask!

Do you want gifts?

The short answer is no. If there’s a specific thing you’d really love us to have then please buy it. But if not, just bring yourself or consider donating to Listening Place, a charity where Duncan volunteers

Who should I contact with questions?

Either of us on WhatsApp. Or, if you don’t have our numbers, email dncnhrrsn [at] gmail [dotcom]

Can I request a song for the DJ to play?

Absolutely not